Pg 2 - WHAT LOVE IS NOT ABOUT

         WHAT IS LOVE TRULY NOT ABOUT?

  SEX


It IS about doing things...TOGETHER,
cause that is what feels both good and RIGHT.


It IS about caring and sharing your feelings.
A soft kiss or a sweet nuzzle at twilight.


LOVE IS putting your finger in the water
not knowing what lurks beneath the surface
but knowing YOU WANT TO KNOW
what is there.


A walk down the street hand-in-hand NOT CARING
who sees...loving the one you are with and knowing 
HE
is more important.


LOVE IS...loving so much it hurts sometimes


LOVE IS GIVING TOTALLY OF YOURSELF
 AND RECEIVING BACK IN KIND, NOT
  BEING WILLING TO SETTLE FOR LESS.


SOMETIMES IT'S SO EXCITING 
IT IS ALMOST OVERWHELMING


AN AFTERNOON, OR AN HOUR OR LESS...
being lazy in the grass...and holding hands.


ALWAYS CHOOSING THE ONE YOU LOVE
 AND MAKING SURE HE KNOWS THAT
IS HOW MUCH YOU DO
                   

                                                     




LOVE, HONEST & TRUE LOVE,  COMES OUT OF
REALLY KNOWING YOUR MATE. RESPECTING HIM,
WANTING TO BE WITH HIM. KNOWING HE NEEDS
     TO KNOW YOU LOVE HIM...
    FOR HIM, NOT JUST HIS BODY.

SEX IS FINE, AND IT CAN BE A PART CERTAINLY 
OF ANY VIABLE RELATIONSHIP, 
BUT IT SHOULD NEVER BE THE DRIVING FORCE BEHIND IT.

It is there, like all the other parts, but if you base your relationship on it,
what happens as the honeymoon ends, and it always does.

WE ALL KNOW WHAT HAPPENS. THE END.
GO FOR THE THINGS THAT WILL KEEP YOU TOGETHER,
NOT THE SHALLOW STUFF THAT FADES,


HAVING FUN WITH YOUR MATE IS OFTEN
FAR MORE MEANINGFUL THAN HAVING SEX WITH HIM.
COURSE THERE IS NOTHING WRONG 
WITH HAVING BOTH
BUT REMEMBER IT IS HE AND NOT HIS BODY
THAT WILL BE THERE LONG AFTER YOUR LOOKS
      AND YOUR APPEAL ARE BUT A MEMORY.

I just keep thinking. ANIMALS HAVE SEX.
PEOPLE MAKE LOVE
THERE IS A DIFFERENCE. A BIG ONE.

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